It is no small secret that in the black community, a black man that dates white women gets more side eyes than the relative that brings only cups to the family cookout. Now if a black woman gets word that one of her nubian brothers wants to go skiing on Snow Bunny Mountain, they want to bash him over the head with a Zane novel. This shit always perplexed. Why do black women go all Sister Souljah whenever we like white woman. Well black women today is your lucky day. I am gonna give you some reasons why us black men are down with the swirl. DISCLAIMER: I love black women. They are amazing beings. These statements are just generalizations.
1) Some of your say some dumb shit: I came across a Facebook status that read “I guess the only good black men are dating each other.” Wrong. We just don’t want to date your ass. I lose count of the times I have heard “Niggas aint shit”, “Black men aint worth shit”, “they are no good black men left”. Please tell me what man would want to date someone that spends all their time berating his species? I’ll wait….
2) Freedom: A couple of decades ago if a black man so much as looked at a white woman, Jimmy and the boys would have him strung from a tree. Today we can look, talk, and even have sex with a white woman without worrying about the KKK firebombing my house. We fuck white women in honor of all those ancestors that lost their lives for our cause.
3) False sense of entitlement: Let’s just get something straight right now. Just because I am a black man and you a black woman, that does not mean that you own. Black women always have this sense of entitlement when it comes to their male counterparts. Just because we both come from the motherland does not mean that I am obligated to worship you and date you, and only those that look like you. Love and admiration are earned, and until you earn that why the fuck should we worship you just because Kunta married Belle on an episode of Roots? Spanish, white, and hell even asian women are getting asses, and learning to cook chicken. So y’all betta watch out
3) It’s funny: 9 out of 10 times we say we LOVE white women simply to piss black women off. We realize how ignorant and simple it makes you look that you get angry when we just so happen to like a white woman. Maybe its time you realized if you stopped asking why we date a white woman, and rather why your black as is still single, maybe you wouldn’t be as upset. We aren’t dating her because she is white. We are dating her because we like her. We just use the race card on you just because we know it works.